In the dynamic and often competitive world of UK property investing, it’s easy to fall into the comparison trap. You scroll through social media, attend networking events, or listen to podcasts and suddenly feel like everyone else is moving faster, closing better deals, or building bigger portfolios. This feeling of “I’m not doing enough” or “I’m behind” can be overwhelming and demotivating. But here’s the truth: comparison is the thief of joy — and it can seriously hinder your property progress.
Why Do We Compare Ourselves in Property Investing?
Comparison is a natural human tendency. It helps us gauge where we stand and can motivate us to improve. However, in property investing, this often backfires because:
- Everyone’s financial situation, experience, and resources are different.
- Success stories you see are often highlights, not the full journey.
- The property market varies greatly by region and strategy.
- Your goals and definitions of success are unique to you.
The Hidden Danger of Comparison
When you constantly measure yourself against others, you risk:
- Feeling discouraged and losing confidence.
- Making impulsive decisions to “catch up” rather than following your strategy.
- Overlooking your own progress and achievements.
- Burning out by trying to do too much too fast.
How to Break Free from the Comparison Trap
- Focus on Your Own Progress
Track your personal milestones and celebrate small wins. Measure yourself against your past self, not others. - Set Clear, Personal Goals
Define what success looks like for you — whether it’s acquiring your first buy-to-let, renovating a property, or building a sustainable portfolio. - Limit Exposure to Triggers
Be mindful of how social media or certain conversations make you feel. It’s okay to take breaks or unfollow accounts that fuel comparison. - Practice Self-Compassion
Remember that every investor’s journey has ups and downs. Be kind to yourself and embrace learning curves. - Redirect Your Energy
Instead of comparing, invest your time in learning, networking, or taking action steps aligned with your goals.
Your Property Journey is Unique
Want to go deeper? Listen to my latest podcast episode where I unpack the comparison trap and share practical strategies to shift your mindset and accelerate your property journey. Listen here!
